That attitude of giving back and being grateful is pervasive in Missimer’s outlook on her recovery. She continually emphasized the immense amount of support she’s received from her coaching staff, team, and head athletic trainer Sam Raso, never feeling at fault for her injuries or being rushed to come back before she was ready. “If they don’t give up on me, then I obviously can’t give up on them,” she reflected. She felt appreciative that she always found ways to still be involved and feel a part of the team, whether that was participating in sideline cheers, helping out in practice, or going through the rehab process with other teammates who were making their way back from injury.
Still, the journey was long and forced Missimer to adapt and grow with each step forward and every unexpected setback. When she first started rehab, she reported it was difficult to focus on anything else except when she would be able to play again. Over time, Missimer learned to stop counting down to the day that she could play again, a date that could change with a setback or more cautious progression, and instead started to count up, celebrating each small milestone and the act of becoming stronger and allowing her to better put into perspective just how far she had come.
“Patience is a very good thing to have,” she mused. “For my first surgery I was always counting down to a date… and that was the worst, so what I started to do is I would count up. I would have little post-it [notes] on my wall and every time I did something little or big, like the first time I could run… I would put it on my wall and put the date and I found that it would help to count up rather than try to reach an end goal because if something goes wrong or something doesn’t go perfectly right you’re not let down.”
With her rehab in the rearview mirror, Missimer is focused on translating her experience into helping her team succeed, feeding on the same no judgment and supportive environment that allowed her to succeed in her recovery.