With her academic plan in place and a plan to finish her master’s in December, this will be her final season on the lacrosse field for American. However, it is not a season she takes lightly, as she keeps clear goals in mind. She is aiming for the team to make it to another Patriot League Championship weekend. On a personal level, she’s determined to leave her kindhearted attitude on the sideline and become more aggressive on the field.
The endeavor to become more aggressive may be counter to Reffelt’s nature, as recognized by those that know her well and know what she expects of herself off the field. This season, the team recognized five pillars derived from P.R.I.D.E: Protective, Resilient, Intentional, Demanding, Earn. Each player was asked by the coaching staff to pick a pillar they believed best resonated with their teammates, and Reffelt, ever the defensive stalwart on the field, was overwhelmingly associated with protective.
“I think I come across as someone who wants to protect those I love, and protect what I’ve given or built as my reputation,” Reffelt said.
“I think I’m a very compassionate individual; I think that’s where my service and love for service comes in. I would hope it would be somewhere in that realm of like, ‘oh, she was a good person,’ rather than, ‘she was so funny’ or ‘so smart.’ I hope that if anyone remembers anything about me, it was that I was a good human.”
So as Reffelt prepares to take the field for one more season with her teammates, it is with the inherent knowledge that she has joined into a bond with these teammates that took her in, and one where she has developed into a role to do the same for those joining the fold.